Sunday, December 15, 2013

momstown Milton moms enjoyed "La Nuit De Noel" at our Scholastic French Tales for Tots

Our momstown Milton moms and tots enjoyed listening to Madame Gergereau read  "La Nuit De Noel" by Barbara Reid at our Scholastic Sponsored French Tales for Tots Program this month.



We started off with a simple Santa craft where the little ones had to assemble Santa's face. As they reached for each part ( les yeux, le nez, la bouche, le visage, etc..)  the moms reinforced the item in French and had their child repeat the word back to them.
 Once the craft was completed we gathered around to listen to the story. The kids were very excited to talk about Père Noël and what happens in their homes La Nuit De Noel. Madame Gergereau engaged the children by asking lots of questions and then helped them pronounce key words en français.


Once the story was read we had a special visitor come to our program! Yes - the Big Guy himself - Mr Potato Head! The kids could hardly contain themselves and they were happy to assist in putting him all back together again. I would call out a part in French and then the child who had the item was allowed to come up and place it back on. The kids jumped up with delight as their item was called out and at one point we had a swarming of exited little people yelling out body parts! 


We had one happy little lady who won her very own copy of our featured book "La Nuit De Noel" by Barbara Reid thanx to Scholastic Canada!



Join us  at our momstown Milton early literacy programs weekly as we focus on key learning concepts in a fun and interactive way! At a cost of only $45 per year it's well worth the membership! Hope to see you soon.


Saturday, December 14, 2013

"Never Let You Go" Sponsored by Scholastic is a Must Read

Our lucky group of mamas and tots got a wonderful treat on Wednesday at momstown Milton Books for Babes. Our lucky bunch got to hear Patricia Storms’ adorable book Never Let You Go thanks to our generous friends at Scholastic Canada. This book was especially touching to our Mamas getting ready to return to work as the book is about never letting your little one go and being there for them no matter what. The book also teaches our little ones that although sometimes their Mamas are not always with them like when they are playing with their friends, or drawing a picture or even going to the bathroom they are always there for them.

 
 


The book’s illustrations leave you warm and fuzzy as the message of the story highlights a little ones growing independence and the never ending and undeniable love us Mamas have for our little bundles of sunshine. The bond between mother and child is so important and such a special bond that it lasts a lifetime even when you are not together.




This book definitely put a smile on the faces of our Mama’s and their little tots and I think brought a little tear in the eyes of those knowing in a few weeks they were headed back to work.

Miss Tracey read the book and led a sing-a-long where the group sang You are my Sunshine and I Love You.

 



You are my Sunshine

You are my sunshine, my only sunshine
You make me happy when skies are grey
You never know, dear, how much I love you
Please don't take my sunshine away

I Love You

I love you You love me
We're a happy family
With a great big hug and a kiss from me to you.
Won't you say you love me too
I love you You love me
We're best friends like friends should be
With a great big hug and a kiss from me to you.
Won't you say you love me too
I love you You love me
We're a happy family
With a great big hug and a kiss from me to you.
Won't you say you love me too
I love you You love me
We're best friends like friends should be
With a great big hug and a kiss from me to you.
Won't you say you love me too
 

Thanks to Scholastic Canada one lucky babe and Mama got to take home a copy of Never Let You Go, congratulations Kate and Victoria!

 

 

Written by Jacqueline Bellmore-Kinney, momstown Milton Member and mom of an adorable baby girl.

Wednesday, December 11, 2013

The Top 5 Tips for Surviving Holiday Shopping

It’s that wonderful time of year again, the holiday season.  The lights are shining bright, the decorations are up, and everyone is getting into a festive mood.  That is, until its time to complete that holiday shopping.

When we think of holiday shopping, the first things that come to mind are parking hassles, long line-ups, and unpleasant shoppers.  This all builds up and results in stress, frustration and anxiety. While its is highly unlikely that we can eliminate all of these emotions from the holiday shopping experience, there are ways that we can make this time of year a bit more manageable.



Tip #1 – Do as much online shopping as you can 

There is a growing trend of online shopping during the holiday season.  From books and electronics, to toys and clothes, almost everything can be found online.  Retailers often offer free shipping during this time of year, so you can complete your holiday shopping from the comfort and convenience of your own home,  You can compare prices at different stores at the click of a mouse, and you can often customize gifts to make them a bit more personal. 

However, there are some items that most individuals might not be comfortable buying online, and would rather have some tactile interaction with the item before purchasing.  So, the next stop is your local shopping mall. But it doesn’t have to be a completely stressful experience.

Tip #2 – Make a list and check it twice

When heading out to the stores for your holiday shopping, your best bet is to be prepared.  By making a list of family and friends you have to shop for, and pairing those names up with the items you would like to purchase, your holiday shopping experience won’t seem as overwhelming.  There is nothing worse than going to the mall and being bombarded with signs and stores and line-ups, and not knowing what you need to buy. 

By making a list (and sticking to it as closely as possible) you can plan your trip to the mall (and save time and money along the way).  By researching those items online before you go, you are well ahead of the game when you arrive at that packed mall.

Tip # 3 – Plan your mall visit at the right time

Trying to head to the mall after work or on a busy Saturday is probably more trouble than its worth.  Sure, it’s nice to imagine that you can spend one Saturday afternoon at the mall and get all of your shopping complete.  The reality is, however, that about a thousand other people had that exact same thought.  So instead of zipping through your list, you are stuck waiting for parking, waiting in line-ups, and waiting to use the restroom! 

So plan your mall visits at off-peak times.  Take advantage of the extended holiday hours that most malls and stores offer. There are usually not a lot of holiday shoppers at 9pm on a weekday, or first thing Sunday morning.  Early mornings and late nights are your best bet to get your holiday shopping completed as quickly and painlessly as possible.



Tip # 4 – Always go shopping on a full stomach

We often rush to the mall when we have some free time to do our holiday shopping.  Usually we don’t think of eating before we leave.  The mentality usually is to grab something quick from the food court, or wait until we get home.  But there is nothing worse than being stuck in a one hour line up to get that must-have toy of the season, while starving for just one bite of mall pizza. 

Eating before you leave will ensure that you are fueled up and ready to battle those holiday crowds.  By eating healthy and filling your stomach with good calories, you will be in a better state of mind and have more energy to complete your shopping. Not to mention the lines at the food court can be as long as the lines in most stores.

Tip # 5 – Shop with a partner

Whether it’s your spouse, best friend, sibling or parent, shopping is always better in pairs.  In theory, it seems that going solo is easier as you don’t have to wait around for anyone, and you can get in and out of the mall as quickly as possible. However, that is not always the case.  Having a partner to share the shopping with can really lighten the load.

When there are two people working together, shopping can be a case of divide and conquer.  Each person can hit opposite ends of the mall and work their way to the middle, or one person can shop while the other can stand in that impossibly long line –up snaking around the store.  And there are more hands to carry all of those shopping bags!  In this case, two heads (and sets of hands) are really better than one.



Following the tips above won’t eliminate all of the stress associated with holiday shopping, but it will help to decrease the anxiety and frustration that are so commonly associated with this festive time of year.  As always, you will have to pack your patience and just remember, the holidays won’t last forever.

Happy Shopping and Happy Holidays

Written by Shikha Sharma, momstown member and Community Manager of momstown Milton.

Festive Party Drinks for the Holiday Season

The holidays are the perfect time to share a drink with the ones you love, but it is so much more fun when we can offer our little ones a kid friendly version.  I have been trying to figure out the perfect cup of cheer to serve this year and I couldn’t choose just one so I am going to share with you 4 options for our cute little kiddies and their parents and friends. Keep in mind it is the holidays, so these may not be so friendly on your waistline ;)

I am starting with some warm drinks to keep us cozy throughout the cold and snowy weather.

Hot Caramel Apple Cider: Makes 5 x 8 oz. mugs

24 oz. Apple Cider
4 oz. Vanilla Vodka
8 oz. Butterscotch Liquor
5-6 x cinnamon stick
Cinnamon Sugar for Garnish – to rim mugs 

In a stock pot pour in the apple cider with 1 x cinnamon stick  - heat to warm’
Once warm add in the butterscotch liquor and the vodka and warm off the heat.
Remove cinnamon stick
Rim coffee cups with cinnamon sugar (mixture of cinnamon and white sugar)
Add the cider and put in 1 x cinnamon stick in each mug for garnish
Drink warm

Kid Version:  Makes 4 x 8oz mugs

24 oz. of Apple Cider
Whipped Cream
Butterscotch or caramel sauce to drizzle
Cinnamon Sugar for Garnish- to rim mugs
4 cinnamon sticks 

Warm 24 oz. of Cider on the stove or in the microwave. Once heated pour cider into rimmed mugs, add whipped cream on top and drizzle with butterscotch sauce – you can buy a butterscotch or caramel sauce for ice cream sundaes. Garnish with cinnamon stick
 

Hershey’s Hot Chocolate (www.hersheys.com): 5 x 8oz servings

3/4 teaspoon of vanilla extract
4 cups of Milk
1/3 Cups of Hot Water
Dash Salt
¼ Cup of Hershey’s Cocoa or any other Cocoa (such as Frys)
½ Cup of Sugar

Stir together the sugar, cocoa and salt in a medium saucepan, stir in the water. Cook over medium heat, stirring constantly, until the mixture comes to a boil. Boil and stir for 2 minutes. Add Milk, stirring constantly, heat to serving temperature. DO NOT BOIL. Remove from heat and add the vanilla. Beat with whisk until foamy. 

Adult Version: To each 8 oz. serving add 1 -2 oz. of your favourite liquor
 
Suggestions:

Baileys Irish Cream
Chocolate Liquor
Butterscotch Liquor
Kahlua
Godiva Chocolate Liquor
Peppermint Schnapps 

You can do 1 – 2 oz. of one thing or mix a couple such as Baileys and Kahlua or Godiva and Peppermint.  Add Whipped Cream and Marshmallows

 
Kid Version:

Crush Candy Canes in a ziplock bag (put candy canes in a large ziplock bag and crush with a meat tenderizer or large soup can until candy canes are close to a powder form)

Rim the mugs with the crushed candy cane.
Add the hot chocolate
Top with Whipped Cream

Add small marshmallows or a couple of small ones and 1 large one that you have drawn on the face of a snowman with edible marker to make it look like the snowman has melted.

I have also added some cold drinks for Christmas Day and the days following spent with family and friends. 

Christmas Morning Mimosas: Adult Version:
 

2 x cartons or bottles of good quality Orange Juice
2 x Bottle of Brut Champagne or Sparkling Wine
Grenadine
Raspberries to Garnish 

Pour equal parts of OJ and Sparkling Wine (or champagne) in a champagne flute

Drizzle grenadine so the colour turns pink

Garnish with a few raspberries

Kid Version:

1 x carton of OJ
1 x large bottle of 7Up
Grenadine
Raspberries for Garnish

Plastic Champagne flute or plastic wine glass
Equal Parts – OJ and 7 UP drizzle with Grenadine (heavier on the grenadine than in the adult version). Garnish with a few raspberries - optional

Sugar Cookie Milkshake Martini: Makes 6 Milkshake Martinis

2 x Crushed Sugar Cookies for Garnish
2 x Cups of Vanilla Ice Cream
1 x Cup Milk
1 x tsp Vanilla
8x oz. of Vanilla Vodka
4 x oz. of Butterscotch Liquor
4 x oz. of Baileys
Shaved Chocolate and Cinnamon for Garnish

In a blender combine Ice Cream, Milk and Vanilla – Blend to the milk shake consistency. Add the Vodka, Butterscotch Liquor and Baileys. Blend to a less thick consistency.

Rim Martini Glass with crushed sugar cookies. Pour in Milk shake Martini Mix. Garnish with a sprinkle of cinnamon and shaved chocolate. Add a cute cut red and white straw to look like a candy cane.

Kid Version

2 x Crushed Sugar Cookies for Garnish
2 x Cups of Vanilla Ice Cream
1 x Cup Milk
1 x tsp Vanilla
Whipped Cream
Chocolate syrup for garnish 

In a blender combine Ice Cream, Milk and Vanilla – Blend to the milk shake consistency. Rim Martini Glass with crush sugar cookies. Pour in Milk shake. Garnish with Whipped Cream and with a drizzle of chocolate syrup. Add a cute cut red and white straw to look like a candy cane. 

I hope you enjoy these cocktails with your family and friends. I know I will be trying them out this holiday season. I am hoping that next year maybe we can add a momstown Milton event where we can make some of these delicious cocktails on our Moms Night Out – obviously with taxi’s lined up to take us home unless we drink the kiddie versions. Please if you drink over the holidays, choose to drink responsibly as our safety is most important this holiday season!
 

Written By Jacqueline Bellmore-Kinney, momstown Milton Member and Mom to a beautiful little girl. 

Tuesday, December 10, 2013

What our momstown Milton mamas REALLY want for Christmas

Ok mamas, it is time to get our momstown daddies into the room so they can read this right along with you.  Every year men struggle with what to get us for Christmas and 99% of the time, it doesn't have to be that difficult.  We polled our mamas and here is what they really want.  (Don't be afraid to add your own in the comments if yours isn't here)

1)  Spa days - time for mom to be a woman and not just a mom.  Whether it be for a mani and pedi, a facial or the works, they will appreciate the "me" time that they don't often get. 

http://www.vixenspa.com/purchase-a-gift-certificate.htm



Vixen Nails & Spa now offers a 10% discount to all momstown members so why not get that very deserving mama a gift certificate.

2)  Cleaning service - moms work hard and deserve a break from the nitty gritty at home.  SAHM, WAHM and WOHM pretty much agree that cleaning is not what they want to spend their time doing.  They would rather spend that time being with their family (or at the spa!)

3) A night out - Moms are busy. They care for the children, the husbands, the households and many other jobs. Most would give anything for a nice dinner with hubby outside of the home. Kids free preferably, so we can actually sit down and enjoy our meal. Why not make a reservation at Milton's Finest Steakhouse?

http://marqueesteakhouse.com/

Marquee Steakhouse is a premier restaurant based in Milton, Ontario that provides both excellent food and musical entertainment.  Enjoy an elegant, romantic evening with the woman you love!

4)  Juicers/Blenders - I know what you're thinking.  A kitchen appliance, really?  Really!  We are all more concerned about our health and there are certain kitchen appliances that can help us in the right direction.




healthEnut Cafe & Juice Bar offers you a number of different small kitchen appliances to help you eat healthier.  They also offer a line of products that are great for your smoothies and juice.  Raw foods such as nuts and seeds are a healthy addition to all of your meals.  These would make great stocking stuffers for the big surprise of the juicer they want.

Another great gift is a week free of healthy meals that they don't have to cook!  healthEnut offers a Wolf2Go program that offers you and your family a healthy alternative to fast food.  All items are Organic, free of wheat, dairy, sugar and animal products.  All WOLF2GO foods have not been heated over 115 Degrees



5)  Massage - What mom doesn't love a massage.  Carrying around our little angels is hard on our backs and we can all use a relief from the tension.  Rhonda McLachlan RMT offers various types of massage to heal all tension.  She also specializes in Pre and post natal massage which makes it the perfect gift for our pregnant mamas.  Give Rhonda a call (905-299-5828) to book an appointment for that all important lady in your life. 

Giving your lady what she wants and supporting our local businesses at the same time, what a wonderful Christmas it will be!

This Blog was written by Angela Hickman - mother of 2, momstown Milton member and blogger - Mommy Time Out

Sunday, December 8, 2013

Christmas Party Game Ideas for Kids

Kids love a good party.  It does take a little more than good food and conversation however to keep them entertained.  Here are some games that will bring on the good times.

1)  Pin the Nose on Rudolph - Great spin on the popular kids birthday party game. 

Here's what you'll need:

  • Pencil or marker                                              
  • Construction paper
  • Scissors
  • Glue stick
  • Poster board
  • Blindfold
  • Red dot stickers

  • Sketch a simple outline of a reindeer on construction paper, cut it out, and glue it to the poster board (or your kids can simply use a marker to draw Rudolph directly on the poster board). Remember to leave Rudolph nose less!

    To play, hang the picture on a wall, blindfold the kids one at a time, hand each a red sticker, and let them try to restore Rudy's shiny proboscis.

    2)  Photo Booth - Provide lots of silly props and costumes and have guests get all silly in front of the camera. 



    3)  Gift Hot Potato - Have everyone bring a wrapped book to the party.  Pass around one gift at a time.  When the music stops the person holding the gift is out but gets to keep the gift they are holding.  When you get to the last person, all the kids get to open their gift together.

    4)  Snowman Wrapping Contest - Split the kids up into teams and have them wrap a grown up or another child with toilet paper to create a snowman. (thanks to Come Together Kids for this idea)

    5)  Candy Cane Relay Race - Divide children into teams and provide each team with four candy canes. They must hang the candy canes over their fingers and hurry to pass them on to the next member in line, but without using their thumbs. If all four candy canes are broken, that team is eliminated from the race.

    These games are sure to be a crowd pleaser for all ages and is a great way to bring everyone together!

     
    This Blog was written by Angela Hickman - mother of 2, momstown Milton member and blogger - Mommy Time Out

    Friday, December 6, 2013

    What kind of memories will you create for your family this Holiday Season?


    Never forget that you’re making a memory

    As far as kids are concerned, once a year when December rolls around, the kitchen starts smelling of freshly baked Christmas cookies, lights suddenly decorate what they believe to be the most beautiful tree they’ve ever seen, and when they write a letter to Santa Claus, you can bet that the big guy will take the time to write them back (shout out to Canada Post, whose gracious volunteers reply to each and every letter addressed to the man in the big red suit).
     
     
    As parents, you know that there is always someone behind the scenes making the magic happen; someone who buys the presents, someone who cooks the turkey, and someone taking cover behind the curly white beard (or if you grew up in our house, wearing white underwear and delivering a pillow case full of treats outside your door).

    I always feel bad when I hear from people whose childhood is described as somewhat less than merry, especially when I think back to the effort my parents put into creating beautiful holiday memories nearly thirty years in the making. We would always buy our Christmas tree mid-December, marking the official start to the holiday season. My dad would blast John Lennon’s “So this is Christmas” loudly throughout the house and Christmas baking would begin, filling the kitchen with a buttery smell that would have all the kids stuffing ourselves with shortbread every night before bed.
     
    The anticipation leading up to Christmas Eve was a wonderful kind of torture. After stuffing ourselves full of a French-Canadian feast circling around a delicious meat pie, we would hop into bed well before midnight in adherence to the strict schedule set by NORAD who provided regular updates as per the whereabouts of you know who.
     

    When we awoke on Christmas morning (after having already opened our pillow cases and comparing our loot), we would be ushered downstairs to the sound of Christmas music and phone calls coming in from every corner of the world where family and friends waited to catch up on the happenings of another year gone by. When we got a bit older, we would toast with a bit of champagne and orange juice and, after exchanging gifts, make a big breakfast of bacon and eggs, curl onto the couch still wrapped in our PJs, and watch whatever Christmas movie one of us had received as a gift that year. That night, we’d head over to dad’s side of the family (the Brits) and do it all over again.
     
    No matter how old we were, during the holiday season, time just seemed to come to a standstill. Roles within the family would shift as younger members joined the ranks, but that warm fuzzy feeling never left, regardless of the number of years passing us by. Now that I’m older, I can appreciate that these memories were the real gifts my parents gave me every Christmas; a roomful of family (a clan to be exact), a house full of love, and small moments that made Christmas such a magical time of year. It was never about the presents (although they were always well-received) but about the anticipation of a day that couldn’t be ruined, couldn’t be anything less than perfect, and it never was.

    Like many moms and dads, I’ve become acutely aware of the responsibilities that come with my newfound role as a parent. I’m not only the baster of turkeys or the buyer of Christmas presents to wrap in multi-coloured bows; I’m a real live memory maker. I have the power to shape a childhood and create the moments that my children will pass onto their children and so on – and so do you. So, as your kids are running through the hallways on a sugar high and you’re cleaning the pile of dishes used to serve up a stellar meal that only took 9 hours to prep and you’ve reached the point where you just want to be done with all the hoopla, remember to slow down. Remember that you’re not just cooking, wrapping, decorating, baking and so on. You’re making a memory that will last a lifetime and giving your kids the best gift of all.

    Blog written by Arden Jobling-Hey: new mom, momstown Milton member, travel fiend, freelance writer and blogger at www.thefriendlygiraffe.com.

     

     

    Sunday, December 1, 2013

    The Helicopter Parent


    The Helicopter Parent

     What is a helicopter parent? This pop culture term refers to the ‘hovering’ or over-involved parent (Gabriel, 2010). Helicopter parents are anxious about their child’s well-being and/or success, and attempt to protect their child from hardship and disappointment. Helicopter parents provide their children with more guidance and direction than other parents, and are more involved with their day-to-day activities. Essentially, helicopter parents ‘micromanage’ their children’s lives.


    Examples of Helicopter Parenting
    Developmental Stage
    Supportive Parent
    Helicopter Parent
    Costs to Children
    Toddler
    Supervising the climbing of stairs
    Supervising the climbing of the couch
    Overly attentive parenting leads to difficulty managing emotions and more frequent tantrums.
    Child
    Discussing possible options to resolve a conflict with a friend
    Mediating a discussion between your child and their friend about a conflict they have had
    Lack of independence socializing and problem solving leads to overreliance on parents to resolve conflict and poor social skills.
    Teen
    Driving your teen to their first job interview
    Joining your teen for part of their first job interview to be sure their strengths are known
    Lack of independence with problem solving and decision making leads to overreliance on parents and insecurity in making life decisions.
    Young Adult
    Offering to pay for a tutor when your child fails a university test
    Calling the professor of the course your child failed a test in to advocate for their mark being raised

    Too much of a good thing?

    Helicopter parents are concerned about their child’s physical and emotional well-being and provide high levels of warmth and support. However, although the helicopter parent may be relieved when they protect their child from hardship or disappointment, their child pays a price. Specifically, the strategies used by helicopter parents prevent children from developing the experience and skills necessary to act on their own. As a result, they are more likely to be shy, socially inhibited, anxious, and have peer difficulties. The children of helicopter parents can also be more prone to anger and take more risks.

    Tips to avoid helicopter parenting:

    Evaluate whether the situation warrants such high levels of direction and affection from a parent. If not, foster your child’s autonomy as described below;

    1. Free-Play: Permit free-play opportunities for your child and their peer without your involvement.
    2. Social skills: Teach social skills (e.g., turn-taking, handling conflict) that your child can perform semi-independently rather than you performing the skill for them.
    3. Assertiveness: Foster your child’s ability to be assertive (e.g., teach them to make requests of peers and adults).
    4. Dealing with Consequence: Teach your child that once they make a choice they have to live with the consequences (e.g., after leaving their bike outside overnight and it gets stolen, they have to save for a new bike).
    5. Self-reliance: Given that emerging adulthood is a time to become self-reliant, adolescents should begin to solve their own problems and make their own decisions.
    If you are a helicopter parent, you may benefit from discussing your anxieties about your child’s well-being and success with a child and family therapist. Family therapy can also help if your child becomes angry and resentful towards you.

    References:

    Padilla-Walker, L. M. & Nelson, L. J. (2012). Black hawk down?: Establishing helicopter

    parenting as a distinct construct form other forms of parental control during emerging adulthood. Journal of Adolescence, 35, 1177-1190.

    Landy, S. (2009). Pathways to Competence. Baltimore, Maryland: Paul H. Brookes.
    Siegel, D. J. & Byrson, T. P. (2011). The whole-brain child: 12 revolutionary strategies
    to nurture your child's developing mind. New York, NY: Delacorte Press.

    Website: www.loveandlogic.com (Love & Logic series of tapes, books, DVDs).

    Written by Kim Saliba, MSc., Child & Family Therapist, New Leaf Psychology Centre,
    400 Main St. East, Suite 210, www.newleafpsychology.ca, 905-878-5050